Simon says...

My friend, Simon wrote something which contradicts to my beliefs and I wanted to leave a comment on his blog, but his comments were disabled and he was too "smart" to restore it. (I know I'm very bad lar, but I can not resist re-stating the misconception there).

For those of you who are too "hardworking" to click on the link, here's the summary of it.
Come to think of it, I shall not summarize it.

The feeling "love" is it really that powerful?
It can make someone crazy and forget everything around and themself?
Some of the people really too serious about love.
Love someone until don't know what are they doing and some even willing to die for love.
Love really is everything and more important than our life?
No...We shouldn't think this way...Some may said that no love then no life...
I think this sentence got a big problem.The biggest aim in love is happiness.
What it mean by this?
To see people around you and your love one to be happy.
The people you love not really need to be with you.
As long as your love one happy then your aim is done no matter he or she be with who.
I believe that most of the people wish their love one to be happy.
When you see them happy then you will happy along with them too...
It is not really the matter together or not...
What is the matter if the one u love doesn't accept your love?
You still can live on.You still have to go on with your life.Why should you feel suffer?
Why should u care of what he or she think?
Why do you want to care what is he or she want?
There are so many ways to continue your life.
Why should you choose the path which is hard to move on and lead to valley on lonelieness?
Just do whatever you want that can make you happy.
You live for your ownself, my friend....
Don't be stupid for someone who really don't care of you.

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Firstly, YES! THE FEELING OF LOVE IS POWERFUL! POWERFUL ENOUGH TO CHANGE WHO YOU ARE, TO CURE THE SOMEONE FROM ILLNESS.

WHY??

When you are in love, you are happy, you will forget that you are sick, and FAMILY LOVE is also LOVE and the most powerful LOVE in the world.

But when you are in love with a person, you can change from happy to an unhappy person or vice versa.

POWERFUL NOT???!!!

YES!! NO LOVE = NO LIFE. Urm...Hello? Without love, YOU ARE NOTHING! If it wasn't because your mother LOVED your father and vice versa, DO YOU THINK YOU CAN BE HERE?? NO!

You know why LOVE is not such a big problem to you? BECAUSE YOU HAVE NEVER LOVED.

If the person you "love", DOES NOT LOVE YOU, then it is not LOVE. Understood? It's called clapping your hands with one hand (loosely translated from a chinese saying) or rather known as one-sided affair.

Yes. you can live on. BECAUSE IT IS NOT LOVE! Because it is merely the person you like...NOT LOVE. If something so shallow as this can be considered as love, then LOVE itself brings no meaning anymore than just a word in a dictionary. LOVE is so many wonderful things BUT it is NOT HAPPINESS ALONE. If you expect being in love brings you only happiness, then you are either selfish or just...plain naive.

And why I say you are not in LOVE but like or an infatuation(regardless how long you liked her) because YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW HER.

You don't know what makes her tick.

You don't know what upsets her.

You don't know how to make her happy.

You don't know what she wants.

YOU JUST DON'T KNOW HER.

It is true that you should not waste your time on someone who does not appreciate you, but NO ONE...

NO ONE CAN EVER LIVE WITHOUT LOVE.

Even monks live with God's love.

SO, HOW CAN YOU LIVE WITHOUT LOVE???