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What women want?

In all honesty, I do not know. In fact, I am pretty certain that most women do not know what they want. However, we are certain of what we DO NOT want. Which caused this very familiar scene to happen:-

Boyfriend : What do you want to have for dinner?

Girlfriend : Anything/ Up to you.

Boyfriend : Ok, how about Pizza?

Girlfriend : Nah... It is too fattening.

Boyfriend : Ok, how about Japanese?

Girlfriend : Nah... I just had it yesterday.

Boyfriend : What do you want to eat, then?

Girlfriend : Anything/ Up to you.

We all know how that ends, don't we? This is because women often do not know what we want, but we only know what we DON'T WANT. Hence, I am going to tell you guys, what women basically DO NOT WANT. 

1. Women do not want dirty-looking, messy and smelly guys.
If I have said it once, I have definitely said it twice. Appearance is important for first impression. No matter what whoever says, human are definitely attracted to pretty things. No one is attracted to ugly things at first sight. He/She may love your kind heart, smart brains, etc. but the first thing that draws him/her to you is your look. Or else, it would be your wallet. So, dress smart, comb your hair and put some cologne. She will appreciate the effort.

2. Women do not want liars.
If you plan to lie,  always, always, ALWAYS ensure that the truth WILL NEVER, NEVER, NEVER see the light. But there is no way to ensure that the truth would never surface, would it? So, if you plan to keep her, make sure that you tell her the truth.

3. Women do not like insecurity.
Be it emotional or physical, women do not like insecurity. Have you ever gotten into a huge fight with her because you have gotten too comfortable with that girl in the club/at work/in class, etc.? That is because you made her felt insecure. It may not be your fault per se, however, you have indirectly made her feel insecure. What she needs is assurance. And I mean, A LOT of assurance.

4. Women do not like insensitive guys.
Which means, she wouldn't be happy if you are on DotA2/CS/Starcraft while talking or chatting with her. Truth is, women like to talk... A LOT. About EVERYTHING. And ANYTHING! What we need is someone to listen to our rants and an occasional response to show that you care or at least, paid attention or a hug that makes everything feel like it is going to be okay. (FACT : Hugging for 20 seconds releases Oxytocin which makes women trust you) 
{However, if you know me in real life and you try this on me, you will get a kick in the nuts and a punch to your face!}

5. Women do not want to feel like they are not being appreciated.
Have you ever wondered why that pretty girl is dating that guy who looks like a potato and is not rich?(If the guy is rich, you don't have to wonder anymore, don't you?) Whether women like to admit it or not, women are suckers for praises and flattery. But if your flattery is insincere, you may expect a slap to the face. By flattery, I meant, when she dresses up for you, tell her she is beautiful. When she cooks for you, thank her for her efforts. When she goes the distance for you, tell her how much it meant to you.

Sometimes, when she is making a fuss or throwing temper tantrums, that may be because she doesn't feel pretty that day. Or she is having a bad day at work and she wants you to comfort her. Sometimes at a certain day of the month, we turn into a monster and we don't realise it. Or even if we realise it, we can't control it. (btw, saying, "ARE YOU PMS-ING?!!" will ONLY make things worse. It would turn her into a full-grown pissed-off Godzilla!) Sometimes that pain she has to go through is so unbearable and sometimes it makes her feel like she is the ugliest person on earth. I am not saying that it is the guy's duty to sacrifice himself to feed the monster, but what I am saying is, if you love her enough, you would do anything you can to understand what she is going through. Just like how we will never be able to know how much it hurts to get kicked in the nuts, but we understand it hurts. (Technically it is not the same, but you get the gist)

To sum it up, women do not know what they want. But she knows what she doesn't want, and she doesn't want to be unhappy. (Btw, this is for with WOMEN, it does not apply to girls)

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