The Beginning...

Hmmm...What is love? What makes a relationship? First and foremost, there is NO formula(or sure win) for a relationship. Always bear that in mind.

My first experience in relationships started at an early age(it wasn't a fad then). I'm not even sure if that is considered a relationship. It was...was probably some primary school puppy love. All we did was pass little love notes, talking on the phone and just being together most of the time...Just pure, simple, childish puppy love... No worries about anything. His dimpled smile was what i fell for. And he would always infect people with his happy, cheerful mood... even when he was punished for talking during lessons, he would always smile. (to think of it now, maybe he had some skrew loose somewhere) Haha!

Anyway, this relationship should be what recent couples should have. Simple, fuss-free relationship. No arguements. Just fun happy days to be remembered. But I guess life ain't so simple, aight? People get more and more demanding in their relationship as time passes... Weaknesses begin to show... and frustrations about everything become the root of every arguement. Not to mention temptations and jealousy. Well, in my opinion, one should always be thankful to find someone to fall in love. Nothing is predictable. Have less demands and more tolerance because NOBODY is ever perfect. Eventhough a couple of minor arguements might come up every once in while. Make sure that that problem is discussed and reviewed once and for all. Never ever bring the same issue up again. Because as time goes by, there will be more and more challenges in the relationship, and if that problem is not solved once and for all, the problems would pile up and you will be fighting for years over the same thing. In the end, sparks in the relationship would fade. Easier said than done, huh? Well, if you love that someone, you must be willing to sacrifice regardless the other half did or did not sacrifice. You, yourself must change because you can never change someone else. This is IF, you so-called LOVE someone.